Posted 17 February 2025 - 20:08 pm
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More notably, they',ll go so far as to suggest that people (women especially) hate laziness when it comes to relationships. The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Casual Dating. Don’t misunderstand, I am no stranger to hard work and am willing to do what I need to do to achieve my goals.
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Still, I am a self-proclaimed lazy girl at heart, and I wear that title with a sense of pride. A lot of people view laziness as a bad thing, and I guess I can understand why. Regardless, I believe that everything can exist with balance. You can be petty and still be a good friend or a good person. You can be vain or selfish and still care about the wellbeing of others. Not everything is black and white, good or bad, right or wrong. You know? Most dating and advice websites will tell you that laziness and dating don’t mix. More notably, they’ll go so far as to suggest that people (women especially) hate laziness when it comes to relationships. However, I do believe that it is possible to take a more “lazy” approach to your dating life and still find success. To clarify, when I say lazy, I do not mean that it’s acceptable to be careless or cavalier with someone else’s time. I do not mean that it’s cool to make zero effort when it comes to someone you care about and might want to build something with. I do not mean that it’s okay to make someone else do all the heavy lifting to spend time with you. Honestly, I just don’t think that dating always has to be so serious and pressure-filled. It’s supposed to be fun and relaxed, especially in the early stages. If I could go back to my younger days, I wish I wouldn’t have tried to be so perfect. It was EXHAUSTING! Here are some quick tips I can suggest for the lazy girl inside all of us. The one who wants to date and find someone to be with while simply being themselves in the process. We are tired, we are overworked, and we just want to hit the damn easy button sometimes, ok?! Don’t Go in Expecting to Feel a “Spark” There is no greater way to add pressure to a date than to go in expecting to feel fireworks right away. That kind of thing usually takes time. Casual dating is like an audition. You both are trying out for the role of boyfriend or girlfriend and seeing what, if anything, might stick. Fundamentally, there is nothing wrong with hoping to hit it off with a new person, but relax. Remind yourself that whatever happens happens. Sometimes the WORST first dates lead to amazing relationships. Sometimes the best first dates end in heartbreak. No sense obsessing over a future outcome you can’t control. In the early dates, it’s better to go with the flow. Pre-plan Your Outfits. This might seem like the opposite of lazy, but trust me when I say you’ll thank me later! For many of us, part of the struggle with casual dating is that we end up hanging out with multiple people, trying to see if any of them stick around. Instead of having to figure out what to wear for each and every date you have, plan your outfits by date type instead of by person. I mean, let’s face it, we ALL have our 4-5 “go to” outfits that we wear when trying to be even semi-impressive, right? We might as well commit to a rotation and take the guesswork out of it. I’d suggest having a go to outfit for: all first dates, outdoor/adventure dates, casual/indoor dates, sexy dates, and one emergency back up. In general, you shouldn’t be worried about overlap. Most people know within 3-5 dates whether or not a relationship is going anywhere. Use these 5-6 outfits first and stress out about your outfit choices when you’ve found the person you’d like to date exclusively. Maybe pick out some undies too…just in case
